My ex and I broke up nearly 4 months ago and I am still struggling to forget him.
I am not sure I understand why I am still hanging on, when he's made it obvious he's just not that into me. *sigh*
1 month pre-breakup
Stopped saying "I love you" or "I miss you"
Stopped picking my calls.
Replied pings after about half an hour or more
Stopped having meaningful conversation (just good morning and good night)
Withdrew from me, even went as far as blocking me off his wall on facebook.
Post-Breakup
Takes between 1 hour - 2 days to reply pings.
Never mentioned the relationship/break-up
Made the fact that he was dating someone else public 3 months after we broke up (I believe they have been dating for much longer)
Hmmnn! EG, how pathetic do you sound? Kai, babe, you need to forget this guy and let go oo abi you need someone to slap some sense into you? The next thing you will hear is his wedding date, stay there and be wallowing in self pity you hear?
I feel so much better writing all these down, it's therapeutic. I have now officially closed this chapter of my life and excited about what the future has in store for me.
xoxo
EG